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The Principles of Success

The principles of success

There’s a lot of thought out there about how to success, what to do to success, etc… But what in question is which one will work and which one is just a lip service?

If you only read about how to success without practicing it any further, then it’s useless.
You can get a lot of information from Internet, books, magazines, e-zines about self improvement topic, but if just read it without practicing it, then you’ll never know if the theory will work or not.

Reading too much without practice will make you overflowed by information thus make you feel confused.

People say that in order to success, you need to work hard. In my own experience and what I saw from others people success story, I’m agree with that statement, although I know that not everyone need to work hard to obtain success.

But, only by working hard is not enough. You need to work smart, and you have to open your eyes wider so you can see every opportunities near you.

Also, if something doesn’t work as it should be, then you have to reexamine what you have done so far. It must be some mistake in some place.

We were born not only equipped with body but also brain, so you have to work smarter. It’s the way to ensure that you won’t drain your own stamina.

So, work smart and pay attention to every small detail, because problems once in a while come from it.

Good luck and be success!!! :D

Do you hate your job ?

I don’t hate my job but I think that I’m not going to work for company for too long.
My dream is to work with myself, be the boss for myself, and luckily I have an image about how I want to be.

I think I’ll start my way doing online business, blogging and another online money making opportunities.

To be honest, I’m really jealous with people who had earning from online activities or freelance job. It’s because I love freedom.

Recently, through google I found an interesting blog. The owner of this blog is a girl from the same city as mine. She is a freelance designer and blogger. You can check out her blog at http://www.wiehanne.com .
She is not working with any company instead working as a freelancer. And that’s really make me jealous. haha..
Can you imagine that you can go anywhere anytime you like. haizzz…

I think from now on, I have to work harder and harder. May my jealousy lead me to success. :lol:
Ganbatte !!!

I’m sorry if I bother you…

You said that I’m the worst friend you ever met.
I said that you’re the best friend I ever met.

You said that I wasted your time.
I said that I had a precious moment with you.

If you feel bothered then I have to say sorry, because I never have intention to screw up your life.
If you want me to go, I will go, but if you want me to forget you, it’s impossible.
I can’t forget you, because I owe you a lot.

From now on, the wind will be my guide. I’ll flow with the wind. I’ll feel the freshness of the water and the air. I’ll live for today. I’ll save myself. I’ll find my own path. I’ll be the one.

I’ll go away from you. I’ll never call you nor sending you any text message.
But if you need me, just call me. Please don’t hesitate.

Why do we sad ?

Why do we sad ?
Are you ever asked this question to yourself ?

Should we sad because we don’t get what we want the most ? Should we sad when we are alone ? Should we sad when we broke up with our girl/boyfriend ? Should we sad when we sick ? Should we sad when we lost everything or just something ? Should we ? And if the answer is yes, the question changes : why we should sad ?

Ops… it’s a stupid question, right ? Or it’s just a stupid reality ?

It’s normal if we feel bad when everything goes wrong.
It’s normal if we feel exhausted, stressed, and burdened when there is too much problems around us.

If you feel bad then take a rest. Calm your mind. Never think about anything else except think about your breath, and your awareness. Lift up your awareness, and strike back with new power and new spirit.
That’s what I call living to the fullest.

Rupiah fall again… NooOOOoo!!!

The exchange rate is now 12.100 IDR per US Dollar.
It’s bad. Very bad… Now I can’t afford to buy a new motherboard and a new notebook. How pity I am.

It must be a good news for Indonesian people who have earning in US Dollar currency, but for me whose salary paid in rupiah… it’s ………… REALLY BADDDD !!!! ARRrrrGGGGhhhhhhh….

I don’t know.

Maybe I should working harder. Maybe it’s the sign that there is no time to enjoy myself. I have to work harder. The question is : Can I ??? T-T ufffff…… :(

GANBATTE !!!

A Chat With A Friend

Yesterday, I had a good chat with a friend from overseas.
I don’t know, but I feel completely different when I had conversation with her. I feel like I can open my mind any further. I learnt a lot from her. She is really something.

I am a very complicated person, and I’m not used to tell other people about my personal problem. Because almost no one can understand my problem, and talking to them will likely end in vain.
But I feel completely different when I had conversation with her. I feel like she can feel what I feel, and she can understand what I try to explain to her. She is really an outstanding person I ever know.

I know that I’m not always agree with what she said to me, but I always can take another lesson from every words she said. It’s like a small stimulus which is triggering a bigger image inside my mind.

Although sometime I feel she can be better, but I chose not to say a thing about her, because maybe this is the best for her. Maybe she should find the best resolution for herself.

Thank you friend. Keep up your spirit and wish all the best for you.

Weekend or weekday ?

Maybe it’s pretty hard for every one of us to decide whether weekend or weekday is better. Of course a lot of people will choose weekend,… but there’s always somebody like me who hate weekend. And unfortunately, I hate weekday too.. T-T

Weekday is full of problem (for this moment), and weekend is the time when I get bored of everything.
Do I need to find a girlfriend or do I need to do something for my own good?
I don’t know. It’s easier to say that I’m really confused right now. I think a lot, I hope a lot, and I grasp a little. Right now my mind is very complex, maybe like a complex highways.

Feeling of Fear, Worry, Bored, Sickened all stirred and it’s really annoying.

All I need now is to calm my mind. To be happy. To be myself, and to be unattached by everything else. I think I should take some meditation session.

I’ll be back with new power and new spirit. I promise. ^^

O yes… one more thing for comment spammer.
Please do not make any spam again because I won’t approve any of it forever !!!
And I also had add a new recaptcha plugin. Hope it can make my life easier.
Spammer,… GO AWAYYY !!!

Raining Again

I hate rain. My shoes become wet and I can’t return home on time.
And if the rain is big, then it’ll be extra work for me : I have to clean my house, because big rain usually cause flood in my house. And I swear… cleaning house after big rain is very tiring.

Hopefully this will not gonna happen again, but why the sky is still cloudy ? Is that a bad sign ?

Recently, I’m very sleepy. I just can keep up with my spirit. I feel lazy. I just want to sleep, and if I can I want to sleep forever without having to die. Can I ?

Watching Bond Movies : Quantum of Solace at Sun Plaza, Medan

Hoi.. I love saturday. haha.
As usual, saturday is a fun time.

We plan to watch the newest Bond Movie : “Quantum of Solace” at Sun Plaza 21 Cineplex Theatre.
So, we went there buy tickets for the show. And guess what… we found a long queue. Ow… this is not fun anymore. It took us 2 hours before we can get the ticket.
I can’t believe that we must stand for 2 hours just for watching 2 hours duration of movie.
Furtunately, the movie itself is not too bad afterall. All I can say that this movie is better than previous one : “Casino Royale”.
If I have to give it a rate, than I would rate it 7.5 for this movie. Not too bad. :D

Have you watch this movie ? :D

Do You Understand Me ?

Hi.
It’s been so long not to write on this blog.
Long time has passed. A lot of thing happened in the past. Sometimes I feel a little bit discouraged by recent condition and situation. Although I can keep up with my spirit, it’s still not an easy task to keep the rhythm.
Life is turning upside down. Sometimes you stand on top, sometimes you fall to the bottom. It just like a rollercoaster.
If you asked me, is it hard to live? Then I can’t tell you the answer, because life is change. Everything changes. Sometimes you feel the life is beautiful, but on another occasion you’ll feel that life is suck, and suddenly you feel like sucker.

I always said to my friend: Keep up your spirit, ganbatte. But when I face the same situation where I lost all my energy, they ask me back: why can’t you consistent with your own words. You have to prove it before you can say a thing about it.

I think they are partly right. When I say those words, I’m not only trying to encourage them, but also encouraging myself. We can’t always keep our energy on the same level. We need friend to help us like I need my friend to help me when I need their support.

I think I need to take a rest right now. I hope I can find the answer of something I can’t explain.

C ya.