Hardy Chen Power Blog

Last night, I couldn’t sleep…
I’m very anxious to find out about certain issues in my life and I couldn’t find the answer… I felt irritated by this condition, but it couldn’t be helped.
I took my time browsing through the web… searching information about metta meditation. Google gave me some results, and I was directed to a forum where people talk about Buddhism.
They had a quite complex conversation in there, and I was delighted because I found some new inspiration from it.

Every time we feel anxious. We’re worrying about our career, we’re worrying about our relationship, we’re worrying about our family, we’re worrying about our health, and we’re worrying about our family. We have too much things to worry about, and we tend to create disbelief in our mind system. We are starting to create boundaries around us and it will harm us in the future.

Actually, I’m very tired of this and I always think about it. This won’t get me anywhere… this is completely useless. I just need to feel relaxed. I just need to control myself. The most dangerous enemy comes from your inner, and when you find solution to tame your ego… you’ll become a better person.

So, the first thing I should do is to recognize the forms of the mind. I should not try to destroy it, rather to tame it. It’s sure not an easy job because it’s easier to kill than to cure.

Still long way to go… I hope I’ll get to the place where I always wanted to.

Good night… my friends.

Recent news in Indonesian newspaper said that in a few months from now many people will lose their job. The cause is global crisis spreading from USA.
Indonesian product now lack of demand because USA now can’t afford to import as much as they did in the past. No sales, no money. No money, no jobs.
Haizzz… I hope the government will find some solutions for this problem.

The problem is this country is very depended on other country.
Yeah… it can’t be helped but in the future we should get lesson about this. We should consider about diversification and learn how to be an autonomous country.

How about you? Do you ever think about starting your own business instead of working for a company?

Recently, I read about online business article at this site : http://ebusiness.article89.com . I’m quite interested and I think I’ll try it.

Recently, I read news from an internet portal about a very kind man who donated toys for kids at England. The total value of the toys itself worth more than 9 million pound sterling.

Wow… that’s a big number for me, and what made me surprised is the one who donated that much didn’t even tell his/her name. Is he/she forgot to tell his/her name or he/she just don’t want to be center of attention? I don’t know. But personally, two thumbs up for his/her effort.
Maybe someday I’ll do the same good deed… Haha… Who knows?
I’m glad that there a still good people in this world. I’m sick when I saw a lot of war, terrorism and other negative issues on TV or newspaper.  Yeah… it can’t be helped. Our world consists of positive force and negative force. The existence of it creates balance. But for now, the world is unstable because of global economic crisis.

It’s already late night in here. I don’t know what to say anymore. So, see you later…

The principles of success

There’s a lot of thought out there about how to success, what to do to success, etc… But what in question is which one will work and which one is just a lip service?

If you only read about how to success without practicing it any further, then it’s useless.
You can get a lot of information from Internet, books, magazines, e-zines about self improvement topic, but if just read it without practicing it, then you’ll never know if the theory will work or not.

Reading too much without practice will make you overflowed by information thus make you feel confused.

People say that in order to success, you need to work hard. In my own experience and what I saw from others people success story, I’m agree with that statement, although I know that not everyone need to work hard to obtain success.

But, only by working hard is not enough. You need to work smart, and you have to open your eyes wider so you can see every opportunities near you.

Also, if something doesn’t work as it should be, then you have to reexamine what you have done so far. It must be some mistake in some place.

We were born not only equipped with body but also brain, so you have to work smarter. It’s the way to ensure that you won’t drain your own stamina.

So, work smart and pay attention to every small detail, because problems once in a while come from it.

Good luck and be success!!!

I don’t hate my job but I think that I’m not going to work for company for too long.
My dream is to work with myself, be the boss for myself, and luckily I have an image about how I want to be.

I think I’ll start my way doing online business, blogging and another online money making opportunities.

To be honest, I’m really jealous with people who had earning from online activities or freelance job. It’s because I love freedom.

Recently, through google I found an interesting blog. The owner of this blog is a girl from the same city as mine. She is a freelance designer and blogger. You can check out her blog at http://www.wiehanne.com .
She is not working with any company instead working as a freelancer. And that’s really make me jealous. haha..
Can you imagine that you can go anywhere anytime you like. haizzz…

I think from now on, I have to work harder and harder. May my jealousy lead me to success.
Ganbatte !!!

You said that I’m the worst friend you ever met.
I said that you’re the best friend I ever met.

You said that I wasted your time.
I said that I had a precious moment with you.

If you feel bothered then I have to say sorry, because I never have intention to screw up your life.
If you want me to go, I will go, but if you want me to forget you, it’s impossible.
I can’t forget you, because I owe you a lot.

From now on, the wind will be my guide. I’ll flow with the wind. I’ll feel the freshness of the water and the air. I’ll live for today. I’ll save myself. I’ll find my own path. I’ll be the one.

I’ll go away from you. I’ll never call you nor sending you any text message.
But if you need me, just call me. Please don’t hesitate.

Why do we sad ?
Are you ever asked this question to yourself ?

Should we sad because we don’t get what we want the most ? Should we sad when we are alone ? Should we sad when we broke up with our girl/boyfriend ? Should we sad when we sick ? Should we sad when we lost everything or just something ? Should we ? And if the answer is yes, the question changes : why we should sad ?

Ops… it’s a stupid question, right ? Or it’s just a stupid reality ?

It’s normal if we feel bad when everything goes wrong.
It’s normal if we feel exhausted, stressed, and burdened when there is too much problems around us.

If you feel bad then take a rest. Calm your mind. Never think about anything else except think about your breath, and your awareness. Lift up your awareness, and strike back with new power and new spirit.
That’s what I call living to the fullest.

The exchange rate is now 12.100 IDR per US Dollar.
It’s bad. Very bad… Now I can’t afford to buy a new motherboard and a new notebook. How pity I am.

It must be a good news for Indonesian people who have earning in US Dollar currency, but for me whose salary paid in rupiah… it’s ………… REALLY BADDDD !!!! ARRrrrGGGGhhhhhhh….

I don’t know.

Maybe I should working harder. Maybe it’s the sign that there is no time to enjoy myself. I have to work harder. The question is : Can I ??? T-T ufffff……

GANBATTE !!!

Yesterday, I had a good chat with a friend from overseas.
I don’t know, but I feel completely different when I had conversation with her. I feel like I can open my mind any further. I learnt a lot from her. She is really something.

I am a very complicated person, and I’m not used to tell other people about my personal problem. Because almost no one can understand my problem, and talking to them will likely end in vain.
But I feel completely different when I had conversation with her. I feel like she can feel what I feel, and she can understand what I try to explain to her. She is really an outstanding person I ever know.

I know that I’m not always agree with what she said to me, but I always can take another lesson from every words she said. It’s like a small stimulus which is triggering a bigger image inside my mind.

Although sometime I feel she can be better, but I chose not to say a thing about her, because maybe this is the best for her. Maybe she should find the best resolution for herself.

Thank you friend. Keep up your spirit and wish all the best for you.

Maybe it’s pretty hard for every one of us to decide whether weekend or weekday is better. Of course a lot of people will choose weekend,… but there’s always somebody like me who hate weekend. And unfortunately, I hate weekday too.. T-T

Weekday is full of problem (for this moment), and weekend is the time when I get bored of everything.
Do I need to find a girlfriend or do I need to do something for my own good?
I don’t know. It’s easier to say that I’m really confused right now. I think a lot, I hope a lot, and I grasp a little. Right now my mind is very complex, maybe like a complex highways.

Feeling of Fear, Worry, Bored, Sickened all stirred and it’s really annoying.

All I need now is to calm my mind. To be happy. To be myself, and to be unattached by everything else. I think I should take some meditation session.

I’ll be back with new power and new spirit. I promise. ^^

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