Aug 18, 2010
Worldly Passion – Love and Hate
Why do They Dislike You?
Maybe they dislike you because you didn’t meet their expectation
Maybe they dislike you because you’re unwilling to help them
Maybe they dislike you because you’re not agree with what they said
Maybe they dislike you because you’re such a boring person
Maybe they dislike you because of your social intercourse
Maybe they dislike you because you’re too much care about saving than to have fun with them
Maybe they dislike you only because you’re too ugly to become their friend
Maybe they dislike you only because they can’t stand with noises you made when you sleep
Anyone can dislike you. There’s a lot of reason they can made to justify their dislikeness.
That’s why some old folks always said : You can not satisfy everyone needs.
As long as what you do won’t collide with moral value, you can do your best to help them.
You can’t control people heart, but you can do much with your own.
Why wasting so much time and energy hating someone who didn’t “pay you back”?
Why wasting so much energy hating someone who always mock you if you know that hating them won’t stop them?
You can work on your own way to prevent anyone from hurting you, but you can’t do it by harming them.
You can’t solve hatred with hatred, because it will only get worse.
I think that in life sometimes we don’t have much choices.
It’s not easy to breakthrough deadlock situation.
Sometimes we need to bear the pressure, handling all the unconvenience by ourself.
Sometimes we don’t have a choice other than to be patient.
And it’s a pity that not everyone have enough patience to handle the situation.
But at least we must try.
The most valuable thing that we can get is peacefulness.
Only when your mind in peace that you can avoid too much strain in your mind.
Peacefulness is not something everyone could attain. That’s why it’s precious.
But it’s a pity that some people often think it’s the same with boredom.
It’s completely different.
Boredom is the result of restless mind.
Peacefulness attained by mindfulness. It’s a state when your brain relaxed and freed from strain but no sleeping.
It’s a state when you’re fully aware of your own consciousness and everything surrounding.
Only that way that your mind will free from any kind of worldly traps, which in this case resulted the boredom.
Your mind free by itself that you don’t need to wandering around just to cure your boredom.
What you’re seeking is already there and your mind can see it clearly without being too much affected by it.
This is what we called freedom.
And that is when you’ll realized that most of people in this world live in their own prison.
They’re prisoned by their own will, or maybe we can say it their own ignorance.
Do you expect freedom?
Then let your mind free, even from your own conviction.
But always be careful that sometimes when we think we’re free, we’re just trapped in new wrong assumption – even worse than earlier.
Life is a journey.
Learn from others, but don’t have blind faith in them.
Don’t even fully trust your own feeling, for it sometimes tend to mislead you.
Sometimes you even made to believe that ‘this is my power, this is my dignity and all of this are mine’
It’s just a borrowed power since the true power is deep hidden inside yourself.
It’s so pure that sometimes easily covered with some arrogance and ‘feel good’ feelings.
Everyone have their fate and everyone deserve to decide their own fate.
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