Hardy Chen Power Blog

Sometimes, you think that life is too much boring. You keep on chasing for something you don’t really know what it is.
The psychology is it doesn’t matter what is that as long as my mind keep moving.

Our mind is simply a wild beast that couldn’t stop budging. It can’t be helped because human is simply dynamic creature.
But the inability to control ourself would just lead us into self destruction.

This morning I read a blog post by Karl. He said something so profound. He said that people tend to thank that they’re not all right. Something is wrong, something needs to be fixed.

Well, maybe the only wrong thing is how they think. They can be fixed because they’re not broken.

We are too much concerned about ourself. We didn’t accept ourself as who we are. That’s the problem !

This thought come because we’re always comparing ourself to the others. We want to be someone other than ourself.

It’s not a cue that we must live passively, but it’s about taking balance in our life.

Of course everyone has the right to change, but you can do it the way you feel the most comfort of it.

Accept changes and be adept in dealing with changes. That’s the key. No one can teach you how to do it. You must find your own way. And that’s what I’m gonna do right now.

Today is such a boring day. Off mood, don’t know what to do. Well, actually there’s a lot thing needs to be finished but I don’t have any willingness to do it.

What I do right now is just sitting on the kitchen, write some useless words and enjoy my coffee.

Life has become so quiet right?
No wonder some people tend to create trouble out there.

Maybe they’re just same like me. Bored to death??

They dressed themselves for comfort in the eyes of others, they wear expensive jewelry to dazzle the eyes of others, wearing sexy clothes to seduce another person and at the same time to make their competitors envy to them.
In general, people are very hungry for recognition from others. They say that it can not be helped since they are social creatures.
Most people hunt for treasure and wealth, they also hunt for pleasure, hunt down the honor, and forget the essence of their true self.

Some people who had become wealthy lose their identity, blinded by lust and desire from inside, made mistakes without realizing that it was a mistake.

Despite we all knew that all the things in this world are not permanent, but human insisted on importance of wealth, and the material above all else. Although they are sometimes destroyed by their own wealth, they do not feel overloaded. Although they are engulfed by the endless lust, they did not complain.
The complain only come when they realize that after they died there was nothing they could carry. They complain when they are dying, even almost unlimited amount of money can not save them. And they feel the most regret for their mistake when they young – it’s all recalled at the time when they’re dying. Destruction and regret that came at the last moment is one of the greatest affliction they can feel.

In the social intercourse, not a few of them who sought to impose their opinion to others, no matter if their opinions are right or wrong. They want everyone else living with their way, when they live in a world that is not entirely theirs.

They also often to make decisions in a hurry. Assessing the situation with their own perspective, insisting on that, and not even appreciating other people’s opinions.

There are certain people who are not seeking truth but look for justification for what they’ve said and done. That is the hallmark of the present people.

My advice is, Whatever happens, to live in the world is always being confused by the world itself. The best way is to live in a chaos without having consumed by it.
From the chaos sometimes came the inspiration for balance and harmony within oneself.
To live in peace, to be free from chaos, the only friend who must be tamed is oneself.

Mereka sibuk mendandani dirinya untuk kenyamanan mata orang lain, mereka memakai perhiasan mahal untuk menyilaukan mata orang lain, memakai baju seksi untuk menggoda orang lain sekaligus membuat iri pesaing-pesaingnya.
Pada umumnya manusia sangat lapar akan pengakuan dari orang lain. Mereka mengatakan bahwa itu tidak dapat dihindari karena mereka adalah makhluk sosial.

Sebagian besar manusia memburu harta dan kekayaan, memburu kenyamanan, memburu kehormatan, dan melupakan esensi dirinya yang sejati.
Sebagian manusia yang sudah berubah menjadi kaya kehilangan jati dirinya, dibutakan oleh nafsu keinginan dari dalam dirinya sendiri, membuat kesalahan tanpa menyadari bahwa hal itu adalah sebuah kesalahan.

Meskipun semua hal di dunia fana ini adalah tidak permanen, namun manusia berkeras untuk mementingkan kekayaan, dan materi diatas segalanya. Meskipun mereka terkadang dihancurkan oleh kekayaannya sendiri, mereka tidak merasa keberatan. Meskipun mereka ditelan oleh nafsu tak berujung mereka juga tidak mengeluh. Mereka mengeluh hanya pada saat mereka sadar bahwa setelah mereka meninggal tidak ada yang bisa mereka bawa. Mereka mengeluh pada saat mereka sekarat bahkan harta yang jumlahnya hampir tak terbatas tidak dapat menyelamatkan mereka. Dan yang paling kasihan adalah mereka yang mengeluh menyadari kesalahan mereka disaat muda saat mereka sudah mendekati ajal. Kehancuran dan penyesalan datang pada saat terakhir adalah salah satu penderitaan paling hebat yang bisa mereka rasakan.

Dalam pergaulan, tidak sedikit manusia yang berusaha memaksakan pendapatnya kepada orang lain, tidak peduli apakah pendapat mereka salah atau benar. Mereka menginginkan orang lain hidup dengan cara mereka, padahal mereka tinggal di dunia yang bukan sepenuhnya milik mereka.
Mereka sering mengambil keputusan terburu-buru. Menilai situasi dengan cara pandang mereka sendiri, berkeras akan hal itu, dan memandang pendapat orang lain layaknya sampah.
Ada orang-orang tertentu yang bukan mencari kebenaran tapi mencari pembenaran adalah ciri dari orang masa sekarang.

Apapun yang terjadi hidup di dunia selalu dikacaukan oleh dunia. Jalan terbaik adalah ikut dalam kekacauan tanpa harus termakan oleh kekacauan itu.
Dari kekacauan itu diharapkan muncul inspirasi untuk membentuk keteraturan dan keharmonisan dalam diri sendiri.

Untuk hidup dengan damai, bebas dari kekacauan, satu-satunya teman yang harus dijinakkan adalah diri sendiri.